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Q: My partner of 12 years and I are separating. He’s always controlled his income and I've worked and paid the household bills and taken care of our child. He also refinanced the loans in his name and bought a car without consulting me.
He has always told me he was paying above the minimum loan payments but hasn't been and now the property is worth less than we owe.
I have no idea where something like $200,000 has gone over the past 6 years. What do I do? What can I do without going bankrupt?
